My Dad died last week…

Discussion in 'The Backstage' started by Space1999, Aug 9, 2021.

  1. AJ6stringsting

    AJ6stringsting Well-Known Member

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    Good Karma for taking care of your Elders .

    Sadly, when we lose people we love .... It is not something you get over ....you just learn to Live with it.

    You'll be okay, plus you got us here to talk to.
     
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    John Well-Known Member

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    Condolences @Space1999 sorry for the loss of your father.
     
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    After many years I still find it hard to look at photos of my deceased parents as it’s just too difficult to deal with the emotions involved. I feel guilty because I feel like I’m trying to forget them, but of course I'm not doing that.

    Dad’s been gone 22 years now so you’d think it would get easier.

    I share the pain in this thread and understand how hard it is.
     
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  4. Space1999

    Space1999 Well-Known Member

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    I was flipping through some photos this week of my Dad and us when we were small fry’s. I appreciated so much what he did for us back then.

    I think it gave me some perspective. Finally, yesterday, after 6 weeks I was able to grieve for a while. I feel much better today.

    Thank you all for the posts, I have read all of them and I really appreciate them so much.

    All of you know how hard a path it is to be a musician and that gives me comfort knowing we share a common thread in life.

    Pat
     
  5. Raiyn

    Raiyn Well-Known Member

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    I'm glad you were able to grieve for a bit Pat. I still feel like I have too much to do more than a year later.
     
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    Deepest condolences for your loss I have spent the last 12 years doing the same thing. Music has helped me keep my sanity and will do the same for you, best regards.
     
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  7. AJ6stringsting

    AJ6stringsting Well-Known Member

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    Sorry to hear this and sorry for the late Condolences.
     

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